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“Orgasmic Birth makes such a contribution in this society in which most young women don’t even know they have choices or think that others (doctors) know best. You have taken a major step forward to open minds and hearts in the realm of birthing — future generations will most certainly be grateful.”
Susan Highsmith, Co-Chair XIV International APPPAH Congress
As Orgasmic Birth’s Debra Pascali-Bonaro travels all over advocating human rights in childbirth we had some advocacy right in NJ, USA with Dr. Nils Bergman’s Skin-to-Skin, It’s What’s in . . . the Evidence, the Research and the Literature at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital’s 7th Annual Breastfeeding Conference at the New Jersey Hospital Association in Princeton.
Dr. Nils Bergman spend about 7 hours working on convincing a room full of birth professionals of the many things of and related to skin-to-skin contact, breastfeeding, and the “buffering protection of adult support” required for the baby to go thru its "needed neural processes" and develop properly in a safe, warm, reassuring environment - in the light of the mother’s body. It was almost comedic - here was Dr. Bergman speaking to a room full of 80% nurses with a sprinkling of doctors, midwives, lactation consultants, and doulas trying to convince us here in NJ, a state with one of the highest cesarean rates, that their was actually no scientific evidence that the incubator is effective. The incubator was invented and used and then after-the-fact research was done evidencing that “mother is a superior incubator” – but, as Dr. Bergman informed, only 8% of hospital care is evidence-based so the findings do not necessarily translate into practice. Trying to get our heads around this shift in thinking is all part of the paradigm shift currently taking place in the birth world. Dr. Bergman said it might take us all a few days to get our heads around it and for those pathways to develop.
At Orgasmic Birth we talk about paradigm shifts but we also talk about the big change one person can make, which is why it was so meaningful to listen when a nurse asked when was the appropriate time to attempt latch if the mom had an epidural? To witness medical personnel asking questions and showing interest regarding how they were going to support skin-to-skin motherbaby care in their labor and delivery room or after cesarean was just awesome. Dr Bergman’s response offered options regarding the half-life of the medication and also using the father or partner more. He helped us understand how the father or partner is an extremely necessary person in post-partum and can offer that skin-to-skin contact and “buffering protection of adult support” baby needs to experience "needed neural processes."
"It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.” - Frederick Douglass
He even shared a story with us about a father who was embarrassed when Dr. Bergman needed to gently break the latch baby had on daddy’s nipple so Dr. Bergman could bring baby to mom to breastfeed. And he suggested that, as with all things, when we do something new, we don’t have to be cowboys about it and we need to do it safely.
Dr. Bergman gave the U.S. kuddos on several occasions – once because we have lots of great research on breastfeeding and another time because several hospitals encourage skin-to-skin immediately following cesarean section delivery. In post-conference research I did find several hospitals that support Skin-to-Skin care such as: Yale New Haven, McKay-Dee Hospital in Utah, and the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia. Do you know of another hospital that supports skin-to-skin motherbaby care? Please share with us in our comments section.
“If you are a mammal that doesn’t breastfeed, you become a fossil!” - Dr. Bergman
How do YOU see the Future of Breastfeeding and Skin-to-Skin MotherBaby Care?
It was a wonderful and fascinating day with Dr. Bergman. Catch him if you can as he has a few more speaking engagements and if you are not able to attend here are a few ideas.
Be prepared with a PRIVACY TAG - this one created by California Department of Public Health you can put on your door or the door of your clients:
“Put Dad to use!” says Dr. Begman. If daddy/partner is there put baby skin-to-skin with them following a delivery where mom might not be able to hold baby, such as cesarean delivery or if mom's medication is still wearing off.
EDUCATE yourself so you can be an ambassador of skin-to-skin motherbaby care: Read all about it at Dr. Bergman's website offering wonderful products, research, and suggestions about how to implement skin-to-skin motherbaby care http://www.kangaroomothercare.
INSPIRE yourself by looking at these beautiful images on the WABA site: http://www.waba.org.my/
Wonderful products from Global Birth Fair that support breastfeeding:
"The Wonderful Place" is a celebration of full term breastfeeding/nursing through
joyful artwork and the whimsical musings of a breastfed toddler.
Balinese hand-carved & painted MotherBaby breastfeeding sculpture
Debra Pascali Bonaro is the director of Orgasmic Birth and co-author of the book Orgasmic Birth, Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth Experience. Debra helps birth pros and new families all over the world learn about the details of gentle birth. Visit www.debrapascalibonaro.com to join in a webinar, attend a destination workshop and learn more about natural childbirth.